Does it seem like there is more conflict than ever lately? A part of you knows that you are with a good person… but another part of you is just so angry… how can they keep doing this? Is this ever going to get better? This is starting to impact every area of your life… some days you can barely concentrate on work. Creating a healthy, long-term relationship where you deeply love your partner doesn’t happen by accident, it takes intentional efforts from both members of the couple. Relationships are like working out, you do not turn into a body builder after your first workout and you are not going to have all your relationship problems solved by the end of your first couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counseling session. It takes practice, as well as, consistent effort and energy so that today you will be better then yesterday and tomorrow you will be better then today.
Couple’s Counseling isn’t about judging or dissecting your relationship- it is about each of you learning how to love the other person better so you can both be happier in your day-to-day life and get through the tough stuff along side each other- instead of fighting against each other. Many couples have trouble with communication and conflict management. In couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counseling you will be given tools to avoid letting these issues go on and on. Couples counseling, marriage counseling, and relationship counseling will help you learn to process and communicate about conflict.