Do you want to enhance your primary relationship? Do you want the fighting and arguing to stop? Do you want to be heard? Are you and your partner disagreeing about the kids, sex, or money? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, you may be in need of couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counceling.
Couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counseling is a form of counseling targeted to repair and restore the love and strength between two partners. This gives couples (married, partnered, or same-sex couples) the chance to speak freely to each other with a mediator present to provide advice and assistance.
Does it seem like there is more conflict than ever lately? A part of you knows that you are with a good person… but another part of you is just so angry… how can they keep doing this? Is this ever going to get better? This is starting to impact every area of your life… some days you can barely concentrate on work. Creating a healthy, long-term relationship where you deeply love your partner doesn’t happen by accident, it takes intentional efforts from both members of the couple. Relationships are like working out, you do not turn into a body builder after your first workout and you are not going to have all your relationship problems solved by the end of your first couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counseling session. It takes practice, as well as, consistent effort and energy so that today you will be better then yesterday and tomorrow you will be better then today.
Couple’s Counseling isn’t about judging or dissecting your relationship- it is about each of you learning how to love the other person better so you can both be happier in your day-to-day life and get through the tough stuff along side each other- instead of fighting against each other. Many couples have trouble with communication and conflict management. In couples counseling, marriage counseling, or relationship counseling you will be given tools to avoid letting these issues go on and on. Couples counseling, marriage counseling, and relationship counseling will help you learn to process and communicate about conflict.
Do any of these warning signs apply to your marriage or relationship?
You are barely speaking to each other.
You are withholding affection as a form of punishment.
You or your spouse are keeping secrets.
You are financially “unfaithful” to your spouse.
You are contemplating (or having) an affair.
Every small thing turns into a BIG thing.
You can’t appropriately communicate without being cruel to your spouse.
Your sex life has changed dramatically and you feel your needs are not being met.
You can never agree on any topic regarding the children in the house.
Marriage, couples, and relationship counseling can help your marriage or relationship get back on the right track. If you feel your marriage or relationship is not strong or you want to build a strong marriage/relationship marriage, couples, and relationship counseling can help.
Sometimes it feels as though there is little hope left after sudden or cumulative strain impacts a marriage. Relational stress can lead to anger, resentment, dissatisfaction and frustration. These feelings may overpower the commitment, security and passion within a relationship. Before you make a decision that will potentially impact so many lives so significantly try couples counseling, marriage counseling, and relationship counseling.
One of the keys to good marriage counseling, couples counseling, or relationship counseling is examining unmet needs within the relationship and teaching couples to meet those needs. Most couples find that when their emotional needs are met within the context of their marriage or relationship, they enjoy their mate more and the commitment, security and passion not only return, but increase over time.
If you want to save your marriage, Star Point Counseling Center will guide you every step of the way.
With Marriage Counseling, Couples Counseling or Relationship Counseling
You may need additional sessions to learn some new skills.
You may need additional sessions to break some bad habits.
You may need to do some things differently at home.
You may need to read some books with new ideas.
You may need to get additional help and support.
Star Point Counseling Center will tell you what you need to do to save your marriage or relationship and guide you as you do that. We’d be glad to help you try to save your marriage or relationship. You both deserve every chance at a satisfying, loving relationship or marriage.
Get the marriage counseling or relationship counseling you deserve at Star Point Counseling Center.
Whether you call it marriage counseling, couples counseling, or relationship counseling, what you’re signing up for is inviting a collaborator–a counselor–into the life of your relationship to help you and your partner grow.
How can marriage counseling, couples counseling, or relationship counseling help? Counseling can help you listen and understand your partner in ways you have not been able to achieve on your own.
Does this sound familiar?
Your feeling alone and scared of loosing your marriage or relationship.
Your stuck in a bad place in your marriage or relationship.
You feel like their is only a sliver of hope left that your marriage or relationship will last.
You or your partner has emotionally checked out from the relationship.
Marriage counseling, relationship counseling, and couples counseling can help get your relationship back on track.
Some key issues which if not dealt with properly can damage the love relationship:
Power and Control
Poor Communication Skills
Inability to Trust
Differing Value Systems
Our therapists’ number one goal is to help couples find healthy ways to deal with the problems they will inevitably face throughout their lives and to stay in love – not run from the relationship when things get rocky. With couples counseling or marriage counseling, after an initial assessment of the issues from each partner’s perspective, your therapist will help you identify relational patterns developed during your formative years. Without dwelling too much on the past, couples are challenged to address any unfinished business that may be affecting the quality of their current relationship.
Through marriage counseling or couples counseling the therapist will teach you healthier ways of communicating including productive conflict resolution. Through role-playing, instruction, and discussion, partners learn how to maintain appropriate boundaries while respecting each other’s differences. How couples deal with conflict is considered by many to be the key factor in determining the quality and security of the relationship!